931st Commander's Memorial Day message Published May 25, 2012 By Col. William H. Mason 931st Air Refueling Group Commander MCCONNELL AIR FORCE BASE, Kan. -- The Memorial Day weekend is several things to Americans. For many, it marks the unofficial beginning of summer and means a time to head to the lake, have a barbecue, and spend time with family and friends. For others, it means a weekend filled with parades, speeches, and ceremonies. For some, it simply represents a three-day weekend and an extra day off from work. While there are many ways to view the Memorial Day weekend, the true meaning of the holiday should not and cannot be forgotten. This day was established to honor, remember, and pay tribute to those who have given their lives in the service of our country. The first official Memorial Day was observed on May 30, 1868, when flowers were placed on the graves of Union and Confederate soldiers at Arlington National Cemetery. In the 144 years since that day, countless men and women have selflessly sacrificed their lives for our great nation. It is their sacrifice that allows us to enjoy the liberty and freedom we so cherish. There is absolutely nothing wrong with enjoying the Memorial Day weekend. The picnics, parades, barbecues, and extra time with family are all a part of the American way of life. But as we celebrate that way of life, let us remember the sacrifices made by those who have made this way of life possible. Each Memorial Day, at 3:00 p.m. local time, all Americans are invited to take part in the National Moment of Remembrance. This is a small, simple gesture to take just a moment wherever you are on Memorial Day to pause and honor those who have given their lives for the freedoms we enjoy. I invite you to take part in this moment as well to honor the true meaning of this day. Whatever your plans are this holiday weekend, please remember to keep safety in mind. Make sound decisions, look out for each other, and be a good wingman. I wish you a safe and happy Memorial Day.